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AliceXD
08-02-2008, 03:28 AM
So i feel like ranting about... nothing?
because i havnt slept...
insomnia suck ass
now back to other things

i would like peoples reactions on this one
what if you found out that one of your close friends turned around and had sex with the guy you were with...

i mean me and the guy werent dating... but he obviously cared about me.. or maybe im in denial... but me and him had sex... and then he frigging ditches me to go fool around with her!
>.<
i mean really... im not that good looking or anything... but... she... fucking beastiality!
o.o
she says shes sorry.. and that they are "dating" but its not official till he gets back... he joined the military so hes gone for a while.. and she says she trusts him whole heartedly..
but what she doesnt realize is that she was only a rebound/easy girl next door fuck

and she expects me to not hate her..
i laughed
and told her to dig a hole and die

XD
i could have been worse... but the whole conversation i had her crying cuz i was hurting her feelings by telling the truth..

-sighs-
really sorry... i know... stupid right?
i just want some feedback...
plus i havnt been sleeping so im bored and its 6:30 in the AM and ive been awake for over 24 hours....
AliceXD

Blood_Pearl
08-02-2008, 03:35 AM
i would like peoples reactions on this one


i mean me and the guy werent dating... but he obviously cared about me.. or maybe im in denial... but me and him had sex... and then he frigging ditches me to go fool around with her!
>.< they are "dating" but its not official till he gets back.
but what she doesnt realize is that she was only a rebound/easy girl next door fuck


and told her to dig a hole and die


you're a bit of a bitch, huh? seriously, if you weren't dating, you have no possession. sex does not mean 'mine'. he's obviously an ass though, so you're well shot of him. maybe they are dating-you never know. maybe you were the rebound and he liked her first and got turned down??

but yes she has ruined the trust between you and the dig hole and die comment is a classic, but perfectly acceptable in the circumstances. just don't think of her as the slut-he's the slut.

AliceXD
08-02-2008, 03:43 AM
see thats the thing... if i told you the whole run in with this dude... you would see that im not exatly being bitchy. it would take way too long. i can however sum it up

hes dating girl for 10 months.. breaks up with girl for me
goes after me never asks me out
plays feild asks out all my other friends before finally realizing hes in love with me""""" quote unquote
and i mean.. this is about 7 girls who are all very.. very close friends
aaand so after all is said and done.. i feel used and hes got one hell of a baggage with her hanging on his every word

i know it sounds like i was.. well wait.. i was really mean in that above thing about the girl
i guess alot of the hate is towards the dude..
cuz hes a dousche.

-sighs-
XD thank you though =]
but.. in other terms.. she is quite... the promiscuious one.. after all shes made all of my friends boyfriends cheat or break up with their gfs for her.... and then once she has them she does shit with them and says ok im done i dont think i want to be in a relationship...

i would know on that one.. shes dated me [im bisexual]
so yeah... hate going both ways!
and hurt on both sides
AliceXD

Kazuo_Kiriyama
08-02-2008, 04:16 AM
He tried it on with all your friends, then told you he loved you? And you fell for that? How old are you, if you don't mind me asking?

Blood_Pearl
08-02-2008, 05:54 AM
i would know on that one.. shes dated me [im bisexual]
so yeah... hate going both ways!
and hurt on both sides
AliceXD

dump them both! him and her!!

AliceXD
08-02-2008, 07:02 AM
eh... im 18... i know.. it was a stupid move... but if you knew how much of a charmer he is... you would fall too.... and i fell.. hard

>.<
Alice

Blood_Pearl
08-02-2008, 07:06 AM
just use this as an opportunity for learning a lesson then

Mr_Sixty
08-02-2008, 07:55 AM
So i feel like ranting about... nothing?
because i havnt slept...
insomnia suck ass
now back to other things

i would like peoples reactions on this one
what if you found out that one of your close friends turned around and had sex with the guy you were with...

i mean me and the guy werent dating... but he obviously cared about me.. or maybe im in denial... but me and him had sex... and then he frigging ditches me to go fool around with her!
>.<
i mean really... im not that good looking or anything... but... she... fucking beastiality!
o.o
she says shes sorry.. and that they are "dating" but its not official till he gets back... he joined the military so hes gone for a while.. and she says she trusts him whole heartedly..
but what she doesnt realize is that she was only a rebound/easy girl next door fuck

and she expects me to not hate her..
i laughed
and told her to dig a hole and die

XD
i could have been worse... but the whole conversation i had her crying cuz i was hurting her feelings by telling the truth..

-sighs-
really sorry... i know... stupid right?
i just want some feedback...
plus i havnt been sleeping so im bored and its 6:30 in the AM and ive been awake for over 24 hours....
AliceXD

Fuck you.
I say close this fucking thread before you get more unneeded attention.

Kimberlys
08-02-2008, 07:57 AM
dump them both! him and her!!

Second.

10 chars

Girl_Sailor
08-02-2008, 08:39 AM
I just think its gross to have sex with someone you know your friend had sex with.

AliceXD
08-02-2008, 08:57 AM
I just think its gross to have sex with someone you know your friend had sex with.

he had sex with her after i took his virginity... XDD

so its not so gross... being his first and all...

lol

but no im not trying to get attention... but if you think that then fine its your opinion

and yeah... im kindof thinking about not being friends with either... and its not like i can really talk to the dude since hes away... -shrugs-
AliceXD

Girl_Sailor
08-02-2008, 09:04 AM
no, I meant for her.

and that makes him sound even more less attractive. I prefer skilled men.

AliceXD
08-02-2008, 09:34 AM
well... for her.. shes quite the lovesick puppy... she likes attention.. .and anything that gives her attention she loves...

and then again.. i was a virgin too so it wasnt too bad... id rather give my virginity up to a virgin than anything else you know? it just sucks cuz it takes me alot to trust a person lol

-shrugs- learning experiance!
its even funnier that she thinks he wont cheat on her...
when hes already jumped from so many girls... and he'll be away for long periods of time... i know him best.. me and him were best friends.. aside from w/e happened between us.. and hes not the person to be surrounded by girls and be like nope cant touch got a girl back home....

hes the type that unless hes got a ring on his finger he wont stop flirting

sad right?
AliceXD

Blood_Pearl
08-02-2008, 05:32 PM
he probably wouldn't stop even if he did have a ring you know.

rEEcEJ
08-02-2008, 05:38 PM
is it necessary to post this on the lpmb?? :confused:

Pure_Ainmhi
08-02-2008, 07:11 PM
Anyone can have their opinions here so I say let it roll.

And I don't think a person can change so he'll probably just do it again to someone else. I have friends like this so I speak the truth.

AliceXD
08-02-2008, 07:43 PM
is it necessary to post this on the lpmb?? :confused:

see this is the barracks you are allowed to post stuff thats not related to lp in here...
so yeah
i posted...

and yeah seth i know what you mean... he probably wont change.
it just sucks cuz this isnt the guy i fell in love with lol. the one i fell in love with was such a sweetheart and would do anything for anyone if you were his friend. and he was so kind. and he respected girls... i just hate how he changed

AliceXD

110
08-02-2008, 07:45 PM
we've established that you're 18. now let's establish how long you were 'involved' with this individual. the term 'in love' has been thrown around way too much in modern society.

AliceXD
08-02-2008, 07:47 PM
been involved with him for 2 years

110
08-02-2008, 07:52 PM
so you basically just spent 2 years of your life on an individual who never sat down with you to define a clear understanding of what your relationship actually was? essentially you lent yourself out to someone for a 2 year time frame without ever establishing an actual relationship? and then you're offended that he slept with another girl (who happened to be a friend)? by all accounts you're at fault here just as much as he is. without setting guidelines you have basically set yourself up for this outcome. granted, the male in question is obviously of a lower primative state in the fact that he would actually resort to sleeping with one of your friends, but still. congratulations, you were played. and kudos to him for being so consumed in his own urges that he didn't even bother to consider your feelings. hooray. human nature reigns supreme.

AliceXD
08-02-2008, 08:00 PM
i did date him for a while till he dumped me. and yes i realize i was played. i had guidelines. we sat down and talked about them, he nonetheless went behind my back and broke those guidelines.. so whatever
hes a jerk

MissNatalie1984
08-02-2008, 08:24 PM
i agree with mick. it sounds like you were just a booty call.

it's unfortunate to see your feelings got hurt, but then it's unfortunate that the guy in question seems to be a total lame-o.

but hey, you live, you learn.

AliceXD
08-03-2008, 02:29 PM
glad i made you laugh?

and yeah missnatalie you live and you learn